There are a lot of women who are a little put off about their man watching porn or shop using sex toys. They feel that somehow it diminishes what they have understanding that it means that he needs more than just them. It may sound strange but women can actually be jealous of magazines, movies and latex.
Women feel betrayed and angry because their man will usually hide his toy use and porn consumption. What women fail to understand is that it’s really an area that could actually draw the two of those closer if she will just let it. This attitude is not restricted to women, there are men who go ballistic when they find a vibrator within woman’s arsenal.
The problem is these types of insecure men and women see the sex toy as a rival rather than one more way possible enjoyment with each almost every other. The key to being comfortable with all things sexual is being comfortable.
Sex toys are not something that is new, they have been in use in some form since ancient times. While most people think of them as a piece of equipment for solo use, frequently used by couples to add a new dimension in love. It is the best way to take the taboo away from bedroom play. It might amaze many that there is still a very puritanical way of thinking when it comes to sex and what is suitable.
Sex toys come in various shapes, sizes and machines. While the world is more accepting all types of stimulating devices for women like vibrators and dildos, more and more so as to the market is being planned for men sex gizmos.
We are all familiar with the jokes surrounding the “blow up doll” to be a female substitute, but are generally no longer the only item being made for males today. There are many hand held devices create solo sexual satisfaction more desirable. There are times when many couples find that coitus is not reasonable. It is at these times that the male sex toy can be a great relief.
The real trick to enjoying adult sex toys is that you and your mate become comfortable making use of sexuality. You have to make sure you enjoy sex with these lights on, without shame or inhibitions. The reason many men hide their porn and sex toy use since have grown up in the society that have lived through “TABOO” to do what comes naturally.
It is this prevailing attitude and the females insecurities that make men feel a sense of shame. We are trained to believe that sex should be only to be an activity between a male and feminine. That pleasuring ones self is depraved someway. Although we have become a more enlightened society these ingrained notions remain to a certain levels. Adult sex toys are seen as items utilized by only a subversive subset and that “normal” couples do not need to boost their sex play.
Before now the adult sex toys were delivered in those plain brown wrappers or you to be able to do a “cloak and dagger” routine so that no one would help you going into “one of the people shops”. The Internet has changed all of this, now you can browse the catalogs of hundreds of sex shops, from the privacy of your own home.